Looking ahead may be impossible for someone who has just watched the love of their life walk away. The future stretches away, filled with pain, loneliness and longing, and devoid of hope. Or is it? Relationships can be saved, even when all seems lost, says T.W. Jackson, author of the best selling e-book The Magic of Making Up. On his web site he shows cases where an ex began talking to the partner again after over a year of separation. Even when much time has gone by, it is not too late to save the relationship, says Jackson.
In an age when divorce is easy and common, the pain that break-ups cause remains bad. All couples have ups and downs in their relationship, many breaking up temporarily, and some will part forever. Divorce rates in 2010 were up to 50% of all marriages, say the statistics, and those figures spell a lot of heartache. No numbers are available on the breakup rate of unmarried couples, but reasoning would say this is likely to be even higher.
Many books are available in self-help departments in bookstores, but the internet is now the first resource for many people across the world. There must be many lonely hearts sitting at their computers late at night seeking solace or advice, and that is where “T-Dub”, as he likes to be called, comes in. During his years serving in the army T-Dub found himself becoming a relationship mentor to many others who, he says, found his advice usually worked out for the best. Determined to help others in the same situations, and perhaps scenting bucks to be made, Jackson created his self-help book, now available at $39.
The book is packed with advice on how to get your ex back after a relationship has broken down, and how to hold on to them and breathe new life into the affair. Reviews report that estranged partners do return and stay, and that they can become more loving and demonstrative than ever before.
How is it done? The advice seems counter-intuitive, especially to a desperate person who sees their beloved leaving forever. Jackson says the first thing to do at this time is agree strongly with the other partner that it is time to part. Carry their cases to the cab, even. Then don’t contact them for at least a month, a hard thing for any heart-broken person to even contemplate.
Why does it work? Jackson says it is human psychology that we want what we can’t have. An ex who sees his girlfriend or wife calmly getting on with her life starts to reconsider and have second thoughts about the breakup, which he would never do if she were calling him every night, texting and emailing with pleas to come home.
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